tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21470044.post4937157199151046870..comments2008-08-11T11:34:25.668+05:30Deepa Deosthaleehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00658669752693955365noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21470044.post-90689117217159554272008-08-11T11:34:00.000+05:302008-08-11T11:34:00.000+05:30

I don't think either option is viable, we're not victims who sit around waiting for life to happen to us. Marriage is about sacrifice and compromise and adjustment, and if you go into it thinking it's all daisies and roses, that's just foolish. <BR/>All I have to say is, it's your life, take charge of it.

Lauranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21470044.post-75321238233627794192008-08-09T00:07:00.000+05:302008-08-09T00:07:00.000+05:30

I don't think it's that simple. No relationship, in my limited experience, is perfect. But I really don't think that a choice like this is easily made. Infidelity, especially, is such a complex situation to be in. Sometimes it just isn't about us or them or social conditioning. And I don't think marriage is based on any 'floozy, faulty premise'. <BR/><BR/>I'd rather believe in what Tina

chinmayeechinmayeem.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21470044.post-4621003342106283572008-08-06T10:55:00.000+05:302008-08-06T10:55:00.000+05:30

please excuse my spellings at some ungodly hour of the a m.

Ruchihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08591871669308931391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21470044.post-42752093941085922702008-08-06T10:54:00.000+05:302008-08-06T10:54:00.000+05:30

i am married. i opted for the first one. don't you think its better to be bored than a tragedy queen/king who has to suffer her "infidel tart's" indignities with stoic, pasty faced silent? at least if i am bored, i can watch a movie, read a book, have an affair, fuck his mind ;)... but what to do with a tomcat who can't keep anything at all in perspective. is that life worth having, really?<BR/>i

Ruchihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08591871669308931391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21470044.post-83407433964452452312008-08-03T17:34:00.000+05:302008-08-03T17:34:00.000+05:30

Deepa! Thought-provoking as always but here's my two-bit....that last para of your superbly articulated piece - isn't that swapping one ideal for another?

ratna rajaiahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17501441012584998610noreply@blogger.com